backstabbing. ; Thursday, September 29, 2011
I, personally, am not a big fan of backstabbing.
Sure, there's always that
one person we hate to the bone, sometimes without even knowing the reason why, or maybe he did something bad in their past that we can't forgive, or maybe......... There's that case where you hate a person just because everyone else around you hates that person too.
You really don't know the guy much. But for another reason, all your friends around you
despise that one person. Everything they do. The mere presence of them. And you, without noticing, is getting in along with them. Without even knowing that person, the real person behind all those stories... That person didn't even do anything wrong to you.
You don't even
know the person but you go on around judging them? And you're being all nice to their face but behind them, you treat them like dirt? Oh, my god.
And to top it off some people are proud of it.
I don't get why backstabbing should be shown off. Is that an achievement? No, as far as I know, that's actually a degradation, you becoming cold and heartless and not thinking about their feelings.
If you don't like them, show it to their faces. Just... Get away from them. No need to be nice to them, make them think you're a friend, and then crush all those feelings. Just. Stop.
And, something I've learned along the way: If they're talking about people in front of you, big chance is, they're talking about
you to other people. Hem.
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